Well hello January. Nice to see you – a brand New Year with a new beginning. As I enter into my fifth year of blogging here at Theta Mom® I took a lot of time to reflect on when I started out, where I have been, and where I want this to go.
Five years ago, my life was vastly different; I had an infant baby and a little toddler boy. Now, that boy is on the urge of “pre-tweenness” and that infant girl? Well, she’s five going on fifteen. I no longer have hours of endless feedings and late night diaper changes. Instead, my life is consumed on the sidelines at the pool and soccer fields. It consists of coordinating play dates and helping with homework.
My blog used to be about my kids – about going through this thing called motherhood. Whether I complained about the sleepless nights or wondering why my baby wouldn’t feed, I used this blog as a way to connect with other moms.
But now, my life has changed. And so has social media – and so has my blog.
I can’t really write about the things I am experiencing because my son is old enough to read my blog and I would never want to write about something that is not my story to write anymore.
I’ve blogged about this transition before. It is obvious by the date of that post I’ve been feeling this way for quite some time. The storytelling is not really about me anymore and that’s where I need to draw the line. Will I continue to write personal posts? Of course I will. But not at the expense of my kids.
Having said that, where do I go from here?
Well, after tons of reflection {see this post} I’ve decided that it was time for a bit of a rebranding at Theta Mom®. Many bloggers rebrand when they find a niche that fits them best and since I walked out of the gate in 2009, I’ve always known what I wanted this blog to be. But, like all things in life, it’s evolving. And as parent, I am growing up alongside of it.
Many other successful “mom bloggers” have found continued success by blogging though an offshoot of the “mom blog” niche – whether that is technology, food, home décor, crafts, homeschooling, or developing lifestyle brands supporting beauty, fashion, photography, etc. So I thought long and hard over the last six months about what I really want out of this blog and where I can take it to the next level.
I realized that in order to be continuously successful in this space, you have to write about what is important to you. You have to be passionate about what you write about. If that passion goes away, there would not be much to blog about, so another key to remaining successful is finding that special quality that makes you stand out among a sea of millions. What is the unique quality that only YOU can offer your readers?
What is your gift?
For me, that gift is teaching. Over the last five years I’ve been inadvertently still teaching through this blog; I assisted other bloggers with advice and information, sparked conversation through important topics, engaged readers and got them to think. I taught.
In my former career, I was an elementary school teacher in the traditional classroom and also worked as an Adjunct Professor. I have a graduate degree and so much experience to offer. My passion for education has never gone away and this is a great platform to explore all of it.
So what does this mean for Theta Mom®?
It means I will be blogging about parenting like I always have, but I’ll be mixing in some fluid posts on education. But it won’t stop there. My rebranding will include a huge spark for supporting women in business so I will continue to highlight and support products, services or companies that are a great fit. I’ve also enjoyed being actively involved in the important dialogue about women, motherhood, career, and the issues we face – so I will continue to use this platform to share my voice. I will also serve up some fabulous posts on organization including tips and tricks along the way to get you and your home up and ready for a smashing new year.
Finally, I want Theta Mom® to be more about me; who I am as a person, a mother, a business woman and continue to share my experiences – not so much about my kids because the storytelling should remain my story, not theirs.
There are so many exciting changes and new developments in store and I am confident this is the right direction for me in this space and I can’t wait to get started.
Nearly five years in this industry and I can absolutely say with pride that “I’m still doing it my way.”
Finally, thank you for being here and exploring this uncharted territory with me.
xoxo
Deborah says
I’m right there with you. My girls are 6 & 8 and I’ve been doing this 5 years too and I know what you mean about them growing up and the story being theirs, not ours to tell.
I know whatever you do will be wonderful!
Theta Mom says
Thank you Deborah! This will be a huge learning curve but I’m ready for the change, thanks for always supporting me mama! xo
Elena says
I definitely understand the need to transition and rebrand- as I have done it myself. Cannot wait to follow you along the journey!
Theta Mom says
Thanks Elena!! You are one of the ones who have been with me when I was just starting out, amazing that it’s been nearly five years already! Thanks for reading, commenting and your support!! xo
Nicole Feliciano says
Congrats on the re-branding. Wishing you a prosperous year!
Claire Griffith says
Very nice post. I work with lots of mom’s who are becoming “empty nesters” and it is a hard transition. I look forward to seeing what you decide to do. Good luck on your journey! We are all works in progress!
CC Fowler says
Best wishes. Always loved reading your blog. Looking forward to what the future brings. Having just celebrated my 3rd year of blogging and having my “real office job” prosper and the kids getting much older, I totally get it! You’ll rock 2014!
Theta Mom says
Thank you so much! I’m so glad we met in real life, we have to do a NJ Digital meetup VERY soon!! xo
Katherine says
I still write about my children, even though they are older, because I feel that as I’m encountering new obstacles and challenges in parenting, it’s still very much my story. I’m careful about what details I include, and if I’m adding something personal/non-generic, I ask. And they are ok with it. I don’t use their names, which helps as well.
Mera Featherstory says
I really appreciate your honesty! I can relate to the transition phase and the need to rebrand, it’s nice to know that you’ve put a lot of thought into and prioritizing your own integrity.
Allie says
Since I am new to Theta Mom, I feel fortunate to be in from the start, for your New Beginning. As a relatively new blogger myself, I look forward to learning from you.
Dakotapam says
I JUST went through the same thing. Half my kids are teens now, their stories are not mine to tell. So I took the new yeara s a chance for a fresh start. My focus is now on working moms like me. My stories, not my kiddos! I look forward to seeing how you re-brand. Best of luck to you!
Erin@MommyontheSpot says
I think this is awesome. I love how you are looking at your changing circumstances and having your blog reflect that. Can’t wait to see what comes next!
Kate @ Mommy Monologues says
I am so glad you started this blog!!!!
And I *LOVE LOVE LOVE* everything that Lauren does! Can not wait to see what she has going for you here!!!!
Tabitha Blue says
Love your perspective and your niche! I sometimes wish I had the gift if teach Share away mama, teach us! And thank you for sharing.
K. Elizabeth @ YUMMommy says
Can’t wait to see what everything will look like. I think that it’s great that you’re respecting your children’s privacy. My kids are getting older and while they enjoy being blogged about now, teenage years aren’t that far away and they might be so thrilled to have their friends being able to read lovey dovey mom posts about them.
Alison says
Can’t wait to join you on your rebranded journey this year, Heather!
tracy@sellabitmum says
I love this so much and cannot wait to follow your successful and amazing progress, my friend. xoxo
anna says
exciting! looking forward to seeing what comes next!