I had a moment today.
A moment experienced in motherhood that brought me so much clarity.
We spent the day at my sister-in-laws. It was there that my son played with some of his baby cousins and not once did I have to raise my voice. Not once did I have to remind him to be careful with the little ones. Not once did I have to give him a warning for unacceptable behavior or the evil eye for playing too rough with the girls.
Not once.
Today was glorious. It was one of those days that make raising children look easy.
Today.
As music played softly in the background and a serene calm crept over all of us throughout the car ride home, I turned toward my son who was sitting quietly in the backseat looking out the window.
I asked, “So why were you such a good boy today?”
I continued to glance at his piercing blue eyes and with folded hands gently resting on his lap, little did I know his response was about to take my breath away…
Word so fleeting, but words I have managed to hold onto for the last four hours.
Words I have replayed in my mind over and over as I have revisited that moment in my head all evening long…
“Because I always want to make you happy mommy.”
Oh my little boy, if you only knew how happy you make me. More than you’ll ever know…
Jenny says
Totally just melted my heart…sounds like such a little sweetheart!
Leanne says
Ok …. that one got me …. big time. Ahhhhhhh, such a precious moment. Thank you for sharing that with us all.
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Theta Mom says
I am still re-living that moment Leanne!
Theresa says
How sweet! I would hold on to those words for sure! My little 3 year old was so naughty all weekend I’m going to live through you at the moment. Ha ha.
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Helene says
Please excuse me while I clean up the mess my heart just made from melting all over the place. How sweet!!!!!
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Chic 'n Cheap Living says
Simply lovely and exactly what I’d want to hear some day.
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Kristin says
Awwww, what’s sweeter than that??
Rachel @ Mommy Needs a Vacation says
What a sweet little boy!! I can’t wait for those days! You give me hope!
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Jenny says
SO sweet!
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Angela says
It sounds like your doing something right. It also sound like you have a sweet young man.
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bluecottonmemory says
Beautiful! Perfect! Those are the moments we live for!
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Allyson says
Those are truly THE moments of parenthood that make alll the hard worth it.
Thanks for sharing such a sweet moment.
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Natalie says
TOTALLY melted my heart…I can’t wait for my boy to say something sweet like that
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Hear Mum Roar says
And to be totally cliched (but who cares?), it’s moments like this that make it all worthwhile.
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heyMamas says
How very sweet!! What a smart little cutie pie!
Sadie at heyMamas
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Anastasia says
It is so fantastic when they say things like that.
Alex aka Ma What's For Dinner says
What a doll! We had a day like that yesterday too…when all the boys played so nicely outside for hours at a picnic with no fights, no tears, just having fun and making friends. Maybe it was just the free beer????
Lots of yummy love,
Alex aka Ma, What’s for Dinner
http://www.mawhats4dinner.com
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Juliana says
This was my very favorite post of yours, wow!
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Jenn says
adorable ~ heart melting moments! 😉 sweet sweet!
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One Take on Life - Heather says
Wow…that brought the tears to my eyes. Such simple words and yet so powerful.
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Theta Mom says
Thank you so much for that – it MOVED me more than words can say.
Gen X Mom says
Don’t you just love it. They can be so sweet. My 4-1/2-year-old has a way with things like this. Now I just wish my 11 and 12 year olds would be as sincere! LOL.
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Tina says
Oh my…that is PRECIOUS!
Best,
Tina
Jennifer says
Awwwww! How cute was that?!?! You must remember this when your son becomes a teenager, because the teenage years are not all that they are cracked up to be!
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Sarah at The Stroller Ballet says
Ohhh. That’s so sweet. It’s those moments that make up for all the difficult times. Sounds like a fabulous day.
.-= Sarah at The Stroller Ballet´s last blog ..I spent the weekend looking at cracks… =-.
Theta Mom says
Exactly. A moment like this makes it all worth the ride!
Stefanie says
That is so sweet! Those are the best moments!
Mungee's Ma says
What innocence. That is so powerful it gave me chills.
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Theta Mom says
Wow, thanks! I love to hear feedback that a post made a reader get the chills. And although this happended a few days ago, I am STILL remembering it. A wonderful moment for sure.
Jamie (va_grown) says
So beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
Sarah Baron says
Yes, I wish you many of these days where you are just so full inside from pride at your child.
Sarah Baron