I have been a fan of Sex and the City since the very beginning and what immediately drew me into this series was the show’s narration. Carrie Bradshaw’s musings about relationships, dating, and New York City were always so emotional and sensitive. At times, she was a bit dramatic and somewhat over-analytic, but to me, this narration was always authentic.
She shared moments explicitly and expressed exactly what she was thinking and feeling, even when the truth hurt. Although she may have appeared jealous, clingy, or insecure at various points throughout the show, she truly communicated real and raw emotions as she was experiencing life and relationships.
Isn’t this exactly what we experience as Theta Moms? We admit the fact that this motherhood gig isn’t always glamorous and easy. We narrate our own stories with raw emotion and sensitivity. Don’t we sometimes over-analyze the situation, especially when it comes to our children? Don’t we feel sometimes insecure that the job we are doing may not be enough? Don’t we sometimes second-guess ourselves in the process? Isn’t this true authenticity?
Although her bank account doesn’t reflect the majority of Theta Moms, if Carrie Bradshaw was really pregnant, she would probably wear the most adorable, chic, and trendy maternity clothes similar to this look.
Regardless of her style, the moment she becomes a mother, I picture Carrie changing diapers for the first time and recognizing the not so glamorous aspect of motherhood.
I imagine her agonizing over the reality of sleepless nights and freaking out about her postpartum figure.
As a result of having a baby, I envision the description of her post-partum sex life, or lack thereof.
I can see her shopping at Barneys, unable to purchase the latest Jimmy Choo heels because her newborn could really use the money more.
I imagine her disappointment when she must decline attending a premier event because her baby suddenly became ill.
I predict that she will be torn between work and home, desperately trying to find a balance to make it all work…
But I also envision Carrie trying to find the right words to share the most amazing experience she’s ever encountered, attempting to describe the kind of love she’s never felt before for another human being.
I imagine Carrie dreaming of her newborn and finding herself more centered as a mother, allowing her life to be more about her baby than her own.
I see her making sacrifices, learning from her mistakes and demonstrating the way her life has been forever changed…for the better.
Carrie Bradshaw would be a Theta Mom.
So if she ever becomes pregnant, maybe I should congratulate her…and then welcome her to the club.
I think a lot of mom make changes when their little one arrives.
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Maybe when the sequel comes out, you’ll be able to welcome her – I can’t wait to see it! And I fully agree, I think she would be a Theta Mom.
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Beautiful post, really. But, as hard as I tried to block it, the image in my brain as I was reading this was Samantha saying about Miranda’s baby, “That baby’s an asshole.” Dying.
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Never watched that show before (pathetic, I know) but I love this post
Wish I could buy me some Jimmy Choos….
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This is perfect!!! I totally agree & I’ve had Sex & the City the movie playing the background all day today!
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Great Post!
I can so picture it. How unfair motherhood is on the individal exsistance, but how rewarding in the long run. Or so I am told?
Happy SITS day!
Love ND
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How poignant (not in a sad sorta way)! Love this post. Love it… love it! I wasn’t a die hard, but am all-too familiar with the show, and your insight is dead on. Thanks for the warm story this evening!
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Ok, Lady, I have been happily investigating your blog for a majority of my day. I must say you have a wonderfully seamless way of writing. It’s not only lovely as a reader for my eyes to be able to glide across the post, but as a busy mom with one eye intermittently on the computer and the other everywhere else, it was great to be able to easily jump in and out of reading.
You have another post about creating readership where you gave three of your own tips for gaining followers. I believe the most important tip was your first; have great well written, great content. One of the biggest appeals of Carey Bradshaw is that albeit at times weak for the reasons you mentioned, her insights were always raw and emotionally vulnerable. When posts embody those qualities, I’m almost always instantly drawn to them because that is when the most relatable, humorous material takes shape.
I’ve really enjoyed your blog. Thank you.
I’m here from Sits by the way. I’m a new blogger and have enjoyed Sitis so much for its concentration of great blogs like yours.
I don’t have children, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed! Hee-hee. I do however, envision myself as somewhat of a Carrie Bradshaw mom. I’m hoping I can find heels to match a stroller one day.
Keep writing!
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I don’t have children nor do I want them I am tooo selfish and enjoy my life just like it is, but I think that is better than having one and not loving it like crazy. 😉
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I agree, Carrie Bradshaw would be a Theta Mom. My love for SATC is born of authenticity also. I believe Carrie and root for her even when she makes a bad decision. I feel she could be a friend if I knew her in real life and I believe a lot of us feel that way. Theta Moms are each others friends, we understand and we support each other. I really like this post and your vision.
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We are all Theta Moms! And Carrie Bradshaws!
Love the blog, Carrie on!
xo Love Lucie